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Originally posted by Nightmare on ILL Street View PostBeing gay will never get you no where with your family. As a guy you should know being gay is wrong. It just means you ain't man enough to wife up a bitch and have kids then go though a divorce and lose half your shit and end up playing child support. But most smart guys like me got good pull out game so I ain't having kids or getting married.
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Re: I'm gay
Originally posted by Bat View PostThe Inuit viewed berdaches as infants who had been one gender as a fetus but became the opposite gender at birth (called sipiniq). However, at birth one retained the gendered spirit of the fetus, thus showing why a boy could have the "spirit" of a girl.
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Re: I'm gay
berdache was term used for native american boys raised as girls either to help with female chores cuz there were too many sons or because the child just preferred feminine activities. it got replaced by two-spirited which made a lot of sense to me not for myself but for guys who just never seemed masculine.
Theres stuff like this all over the world
In Samoa, the Samoans believe that there is no such thing as being "gay" or "homosexual."[1] Fa'afafine, as a third gender, have sexual relationships almost exclusively with men who do not identify as fa'afafine, and sometimes with women, but apparently not with other fa'afafine.[8] This third gender is so well-accepted in Samoan culture that most Samoans state that they have friendship relationships with at least one fa'afafine; it is, however, not totally accepted in other communities, such as some Catholic groups and traditional leaders. Traditionally, fa'afafine follow the training of the women's daily work in an Aiga (Samoan family group).[1][9]
Being a fa'afafine is said to be thoroughly enjoyable by this group. Many would state that they "loved" engaging in feminine activities as children, such as playing with female peers, playing female characters during role play, dressing up in female clothes, and playing with female gender-typical toys. This is in contrast to women who stated that they merely "liked" engaging in those activities as children. Some fa'afafine recall believing they were girls in childhood, but knew better as adults. In Samoa, there is very seldom ridicule or displeasure towards a biologically male child who states that they are a girl. For instance, one study showed only a minority of parents (20 percent) tried to stop their fa'afafine children from engaging in feminine behavior. Being pushed into the male gender role is upsetting to many fa'afafine. A significant number stated that they "hated" masculine play, such as rough games and sports, even more than females did as children.[1]
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